So many of us don't know who we really are or who we want to be. My new trick is to write down my "aha" moments. When the light bulb goes off - I make a note of it. You'll start to see a pattern - You'll start to know who you are, what you like and dislike. It's a way of journaling.
The outcome will be that you can learn about yourself, it will be a reminder of sorts...I like this, but don't like this - you'll make better choices, decisions will become clearer and easier. Your definition of who you are at the core will come to light, and you will live with a happiness and lightness - because then you are being true